StillLivin (original poster member #40229) posted at 4:49 AM on Saturday, January 18th, 2025
I was talking to my former SIL and during the conversation, it came up that presently, I have now been divorced slightly longer than I was married.
We don't usually talk about our exes (they were brothers, hence why she's SIL). We had a good laugh because we often joke that we divorced them but not each other.
Had me thinking, ex really is just "someone I used to know" these days. I've forgotten often over the past few years both my former anniversary and divorce dates because that part of my life has been over for a long time.
Just goes to show, time does heal. I couldn't even imagine dealing with someone like ex now. There was i time I thought I was broken and would never recover. Let's toast to healing! Cheers!
Maybe this should have gone in General or D/S, mods rectify please if I posted in the wrong place.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Arnold01 ( member #39751) posted at 12:45 PM on Saturday, January 18th, 2025
Thanks for sharing this positive message. I'm happy for you, and your story gives me hope that I'll find the same peace and healing that you have.
Since I'm in the midst of divorcing my WH after 2+ decades, I'm not sure the math works for me to divorced longer than I was married, but good genes and old age run in my family, so here's to hoping!
D-Day 1: June 2013 discovered two-month PA
D-Day 2: November 2024 caught him in ongoing PA
Divorcing…and hopeful
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:39 PM on Saturday, January 18th, 2025
Thanks for the great post! I am so glad that you still consider her your SIL.
I second your toast to healing. Cheers!
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
