GotTheMorbs ( member #86894) posted at 2:47 AM on Saturday, July 4th, 2026
I can't make others understand what I'm saying if they don't want to.
I'm not arguing... I'm calibrating
Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 12:51 PM on Saturday, July 4th, 2026
For my understanding and to be able to try and give advice, who was your AP and did he also have a partner/wife? How did you meet him? I can't seem to find it in any of your posts.
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:54 PM on Saturday, July 4th, 2026
GottheMorbs
I get your point. Makes sense to me.
Everyone feels and experiences and heals differently. That’s the point of this site.
We can debate points and analogies etc. but I can say that the best revenge is living your best life.
My H tells me he worries about us as a couple. Me — I’m just living my best life.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
KitchenDepth5551 ( member #83934) posted at 1:52 PM on Saturday, July 4th, 2026
GotTheMorbs,
Heard and understood. Thank you for that.
I am curious and would appreciate your thoughts if you will indulge me.
Do you think I am intellectually incapable of understanding you and your responses?
Or do you think I am emotionally in a state where I am not able to respond in a logical and intelligent way to your responses?
What do you think is going on with me? What do you think my problem is?
I broke my toe or foot last weekend at my friend's mountain house by accidentally kicking her couch late at night. I've spent the week with my foot elevated and throbbing and trying not to move and sleeping poorly. I'm not in the best head space. Ha ha.
