JRod ( member #50935) posted at 12:02 AM on Saturday, December 26th, 2015
and what is a "legitimate" post?
Me: BH 55
Her: WW 34
Together: 8 years, DD-7
DDay: November 14, 2015
Confrontation: December 17, 2015 leads to TT
Current status: Attempting R with MC
"Someday, everything is gonna be smooth like a rhapsody, when I paint my masterpie
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 2:31 AM on Saturday, December 26th, 2015
A legitimate post is where you post a question, story, or response, as opposed to one word answers, or just posting that you agree with what others have posted.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
cdnmommy ( member #30182) posted at 4:43 AM on Thursday, September 29th, 2016
So, if my credit card is expiring and I need to change it, what do I do? Sorry if this is explained somewhere, but I couldn't find it. :)
Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, October 1st, 2016
Please send me a PM and I"ll change your CC information for you:)
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
bw900 ( member #47732) posted at 8:08 PM on Tuesday, October 18th, 2016
I have a question about SImplicity. If I like the purple better than the mobile friendly, can I still use it? Can it be switched back and forth? Thanks. 
Me: BW 68 (59 at dday) WH: 69 (60 at dday)D-day 1/2015 EA/PA 1.25 year w/COW M 31 yrs, 4 grown kids Reconciling, which is not easy! Still Grieving what I thought our M was and who I thought he was
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 10:40 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2016
Yes, you can go back and forth. Once you are in SImplicity, just click the "Home" link at the top of the page, and that will link you back to the standard web view.
bw900 ( member #47732) posted at 4:24 AM on Sunday, October 23rd, 2016
Sounds good. Thank you!
Me: BW 68 (59 at dday) WH: 69 (60 at dday)D-day 1/2015 EA/PA 1.25 year w/COW M 31 yrs, 4 grown kids Reconciling, which is not easy! Still Grieving what I thought our M was and who I thought he was
janewilliams ( new member #58546) posted at 1:47 PM on Tuesday, May 2nd, 2017
No soliciting.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:56 AM, May 2nd (Tuesday)]
Used2bhappy10 ( member #59324) posted at 9:57 PM on Sunday, July 16th, 2017
I donated last week, then within an hour my credit card was hacked for airline ticket from LAX to JFK on Virgin. Odd.
Me: 50+
WH: 50+
M: 30+ years, 2 adult DD
DDay March 2017
Strong into R with a better than ever WH
I saw that.
Signed,
Karma
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 8:00 PM on Tuesday, July 18th, 2017
We use Authorize.net for our payment gateway and all transactions are fully encrypted. We are 100% PCI compliant.
runsmiley ( member #33572) posted at 9:05 AM on Thursday, October 19th, 2017
Just donated for premium. The free content and knowledge I've gained here has been worth it. Nice to nkow im not alone as a BS.
Abacus ( member #57357) posted at 2:40 AM on Tuesday, January 9th, 2018
I would like to see my beginning posts. I joined in February (2017). Now that I've been here several months, I'd like to go back and read the advice I first received. But I'm unclear as to WHEN the "archive" happens.
View All Posts (all premium access)
Gain access to all of your posts that have not yet been archived using SImplicity
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Archive Access (Platinum access)
Do you want to see how far you have come? A great way to see your progress is to revisit your early days on SurvivingInfidelity.com. Platinum access gives you access to all of your archived posts.
BW, mid 50s
6 wk EA (Nov-Dec 2016). D-day by accident (Feb 2017).
We tried to DIY reconciliation at first. Not recommended.
"You are ENOUGH. You are so enough it is unbelievable how enough you are."
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 3:44 AM on Tuesday, January 9th, 2018
Once you upgrade your membership, you should be able to see your previous posts as soon as your upgrade is registered in the system.
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
Abacus ( member #57357) posted at 4:08 PM on Tuesday, January 9th, 2018
I'm trying to figure out which *level* of access I need to purchase first, so that I can see my progress from last February.
BW, mid 50s
6 wk EA (Nov-Dec 2016). D-day by accident (Feb 2017).
We tried to DIY reconciliation at first. Not recommended.
"You are ENOUGH. You are so enough it is unbelievable how enough you are."
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 1:22 AM on Wednesday, January 10th, 2018
Let me see what i can find out ...
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 2:39 PM on Wednesday, January 10th, 2018
Topic and corresponding messages are archived once they reach page 26 of the forums.
Upgrading to any premium level will give you access to SImplicity, which allows you to see all of your posts that have not yet been archived. Upgrading to platinum will give you access to all of your posts that have been archived.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
2015sucked ( member #61258) posted at 4:04 AM on Thursday, January 18th, 2018
Made my donation, but still don't have access to Investigative Tips Forum.
Me; 57 on D-Day
FWH-61 on D-Day
D-Day 1; 11/29/15
D-Day 2; 3/31/16
D-Day 3; 5/31/16
Affair with COW
"If it's not alright in the end; it's not the end"
Dellva ( member #62710) posted at 10:49 PM on Tuesday, February 20th, 2018
What about international payments is it still by credit card ?
Me: BS (47)
Him: WS (49)
Dday: 6/6/2017
2 Dday: 28/3/2018
Separated: 29/3/2018
7 year relationship
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 8:08 PM on Tuesday, April 17th, 2018
Investigative Tips becomes available when you upgrade and have 51 posts. International payments can be made via credit card.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:53 PM on Sunday, May 20th, 2018
OK...here's the deal:
I am older than God and barely know enough about computers / iPhones / iPads to log on.
For over a year now both my iPhone and iPad pop up directly to the SI site after I type in "s" in search. This is handy for me, but not ideal due to privacy.
I have gone to "settings" on both devices and "cleared history", but it continues to show up under "bookmarks" and "top hits" when I type in a "s" under search. My "cookies" are "on" if that means anything.
I'd love to fix that, if someone can explain it to me, but that's not why I'm really here.
I'm trying to understand the whole donation vs membership.
I haven't found out what the memberships are or how much they are.
I don't even understand most of the QUESTIONS on this thread...much less the answers.
I wish I could ask my foolish questions of someone I know IRL, but no one knows of our reason to be here.
Thx.
[This message edited by WhatsRight at 7:18 PM, May 20th (Sunday)]
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
