brokendollparts (original poster member #62415) posted at 3:23 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2025
On the phone with H at work. He suddenly said "oh my god whyyyyy"
So if anyone remembers the AP still worked at the same company as my H. I chose not to make him leave because it would have hurt ME to struggle financially etc.
Anyway, H has a new route and guess who the fuck showed up with a different company today? Yeah, the AP.
What are the chances?? Why? I mean he immediately told me and he seems really disturbed.
So I got my wish, she left HIS company but now works for a different company in the same type of work AND she has the same location as my H.
How do we even handle this? I mean obviously just ignore but this is just awful.
Me 49BSHim 51WH Married 28YDDay #1 11/13/2017DDay #2 1/22/2018Attempting R since DDay #2
WB1340 ( member #85086) posted at 8:56 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2025
Do you believe in coincidence? It's possible she made this happen. If this is a problem then tell him you need him to get switched to another route/location.
D-day April 4th 2024. WW was sexting with a married male coworker. Started R a week later, still ongoing...
brokendollparts (original poster member #62415) posted at 9:00 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2025
We have no idea when she left the company! It was definitely within the last 12 months as she popped her ugly face up on a zoom meeting because she saw my husband was on and accidentally turned his camera on. I mean she would have had to have someone from husbands company tell her his new route, then somehow finagle that for herself with a totally different company. It sounds a bit far fetched even for my conspiratorial mind. I mean it’s possible but she’s never tried to contact him or reach out directly or anything.
Me 49BSHim 51WH Married 28YDDay #1 11/13/2017DDay #2 1/22/2018Attempting R since DDay #2
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 11:32 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2025
I do not believe in coincidence.
IMHO - he needs to talk to his manager/HR ASAP to get another route.
Kudos to him for being honest with you and not hiding this.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
brokendollparts (original poster member #62415) posted at 11:56 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2025
I mean if she wanted contact with him she had 7 years to do so. Many ways she could have inserted herself into his work space. I think it’s bad luck but also maybe it’s a time for me to learn to let shit go? Getting another route is out of the question at the moment as they were just reengineered. I kinda hope it makes my H uncomfortable honestly. I don’t want to keep punishing him but sometimes he needs a little nudge to remember and actually feel how much I’ve been through for him.
I’m anticipating me having a bad day and accusing him of meeting up with her but maybe this will push me towards not giving a fuck about her ugly ass. He was extremely flustered and disturbed when he saw her.
It’s a totally different company. It’s just really unfortunate. I mean she could have been at other locations he has serviced and he never saw her I mean it’s quite possible today was an aberration.
Me 49BSHim 51WH Married 28YDDay #1 11/13/2017DDay #2 1/22/2018Attempting R since DDay #2
