Kim D (original poster member #16220) posted at 4:20 PM on Sunday, September 28th, 2025
DD1 2006ish, I think, LastDD: July, 2025 (right after "celebrating" 25 years of marriage 
). I filed for divorce right after I found out and we can sign papers Nov 17th. Joined online dating site just to help with my self esteem and 1 of my matches and I have just clicked… I mean… he makes me forget about my ex but I KNOW that’s not the point. But I LOVE my time with new man. We haven’t been dating officially yet but plan to meet next week. It’s too soon for dating, right??!!?!? I really want to hear, "No… you’ve been through the wringer and you deserve some fun (and see where it goes)". This is going to be a rebound, isn’t it 
Me (BS): 32 (now 48)FWH: 40 (now 56)DDay: 3/14/07 (DDay 2: 7/16/25)Finally moving on!
Formerpeopleperson ( member #85478) posted at 8:27 PM on Sunday, September 28th, 2025
My sense is that the online dating world is a very harsh place.
Temper your expectations.
Be very, very careful.
But if he’s a unicorn, have fun.
It’s never too late to live happily ever after
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 8:54 PM on Sunday, September 28th, 2025
Have fun.
That's it. Don't over think shit. Just be. Maybe new guy will be awesome, horrible, or somewhere in between. Not important right now. Just enjoy life. Have fun.
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
