It's been a while

I could barely remember my log in but... something has come up. Not bad at all, but it brings me back to years ago and I need advice...

DH has a job where he gets involved in businesses people want to start.
Twice now, some of my bff have started a business, gone to him, and I hear about it from THEM, not him.
Last night at book club one of them told me she bought a business, and thanks to DH, got the money to buy it.

It feels like a big secret where I am the last to know.
Of course he can't tell me because of company ethics. Or, can he?

I tell him everything that goes on with my job. "I made 111 gadgets today" doesn't sound as interesting as "guess who might get fired." I TRUST he'll keep his mouth shut and he does.
I've never betrayed any of his company secrets in 35 years of marriage.
We are a couple that I thought talks about everything, or so I thought.

What to do? I feel crushed.

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