There's a billion things wrong with shooting the injured BS
Since clueless non BS shoot the injured BS all too often, I will go on a spicy vent.
It's just bullsh*t that so many people think that infidelity is funny and should be laughed at . F*ck all the sitcoms and movies where the BS is portrayed as getting in the way of the WS and AP "true love".
F*ck the fact that is much more socially acceptable to not tell the BS. F*ck the fact the people who do tell often are seen as a "snitch " or someone who "stabbed the WS in the back" by clueless non BS's.
F*ck all the misconceptions that blame the BS for the A instead of the WS.
Here are the f*cken misconceptions.
Before the A
The BS must have done SOMETHING to make the WS consider cheating.
That something may be
1) Not enough sex
2) A nag
3) Cold
4) Unsupportive
5)ETC to infinity.
During the A
How can the BS not know that the A is going on ?
How can the BS not spot the signs of an A?
How can the BS not know that they are being lied to ?
After Dday
The BS is dumb for staying with the WS.
The BS is vindictive and unforgiving if they divorce.
It is the BS fault when the BS can't "get over it" within a month or less.
F+ck that sh!t.
All those damn social norms and misconceptions that just f*cken adds insult to injury to an already hurting BS !
18 comments posted: Wednesday, October 30th, 2024
(Sarcasm) Guide on how to be a good friend to BS !
Sarcasm has helped me greatly.
To me, it's a sign of healing that I can look back and laugh at what was once very painful situation.
I hope to bring sarcasm and humor to others with this thread.
.
.
.
Everyone knows about the cheater's handbook.
I wrote the companion issue of " Guide on how to be a good friend to BS !"
.
.
Chapter 1 If you find out about the A
If you happen to find out that the WS is cheating on the BS,
1) Please don't tell the BS because it's really none of your business
2) What the BS's doesn't know cant hurt them
3) Just keep your mouth shut and it wont get back to WS or BS
Chapter 2 The real reasons why the WS cheated
1) The BS wasn't giving the WS enough sex
2) The BS wasn't meeting the WS's needs
3) The BS was being a nag
Chapter 3 How to react after Dday.
1) Before Dday the A was "none of your business", now after Dday the A is
EVERYONE'S business
2) Gossip to as many people as you can and tell them all the saucy details of the
A that you know
3)Tell others that you a shocked the BS let the A go as long as it did. Openly
question how could the BS not know .
Chapter 4 Things to say to a BS after Dday.
Listen to the BS moan , whine and complain about the A for fifteen minutes only.
Make sure that the during the whole time you are listening to the BS complain
roll your eyes a few times, act disinterested and yawn a few times.
After you listened to the BS complain, this is how you console them. These lines
are guaranteed to console a over reacting BS
A) The WS's A was a mistake
B) It was just sex
C) No one died so don't make it such a big deal
Chapter 5 Time to give the BS the cold shoulder.
After first conversation with BS, do your best to give the BS the cold shoulder for
around a month.
1) Avoid running into the BS.
A) If you accidentally run into the BS , just say hi and bye. Do not give the BS the
opportunity to bring up the A again.
2) Don't respond to text messages, phone calls or social media messages from
the BS
Chapter 6 Time to normalize relationship with BS again.
One month is more than enough time for the BS to get the A out their system.
Contact the BS again and act like the A never happened.
If the BS brings up the A again , tell the BS to get over it. The BS will thank you
for the reminder that they should get over it.
If after two months the BS is still whining about the A, cut the BS out of your life.
Chapter 6 How to respond to the BS's choices after Dday.
1) If the BS decides to R tell the BS that you would never stay with a cheater.
2) If the BS decides to D tell the BS that the WS was a nice person and deserved a
second chance
6 comments posted: Sunday, October 20th, 2024
If you're creepin', please dont let me know !!!
Lyrics to Creepin by21 Savage, Metro Boomin, and The Weeknd
Oooh,
Just can't believe this man
(Metro Boomin want some more --)
Somebody said they saw you
The person you were kissing wasn't me
And I would never ask you, I just kept it to myself
I don't wanna know, if you're playing me
Keep it on the low
Cause my heart can't take it anymore
And if you creeping, please don't let it show
Oh baby, I don't wanna know
I think about it when I hold you
When looking in your eyes, I can't believe
And I don't need to know the truth
But baby keep it to yourself
I don't wanna know, if you're playing me
Keep it on the low
Cause my heart can't take it anymore
And if you creeping, please don't let it show
Oh baby, I don't wanna know
Did he touch you better than me? (touch you better than me?)
Did he watch you fall asleep (watch you fall asleep?)
Did you show him all those things that you used to do to me?
If you're better off that way (better off that way)
Baby all that I can say (all that I can say)
If you're gonna do your thing, then don't come back to me
Ooh
Woah, woah, woah
21
Had me crushing, I was cuffing like the precinct
How you go from housewife to a sneaky link
Got you ridin round in all types of benz's and rovers
Girl you used to ride in a rinky dink
I'm the one put you in Eliante (on God)
Fashion Nova model, I put you on the runway (on God)
You was rocking coach bags, got you chanaynay
Side --in frisco, I call her my bae bae (21)
I got a girl but I still feel alone
If you playing me that mean my home aint home
Having nightmares of going through your phone (21)
Can't even record you got me out my zone
I don't wanna know, if you're playing me
Keep it on the low
Cause my heart can't take it anymore
And if you creeping, please don't let it show
Oh baby
I don't wanna know, if you're playing me
Keep it on the low
Cause my heart can't take it anymore
And if you creeping, please don't let it show
Oh baby I don't wanna know
If you creeping just don't let me find out (on God)
Get a hotel never bring him to the house (on God)
If you're better off that way (better off that way)
Baby all that I can say (all that I can say)
If you're gonna do your thing, then don't come back to me
Sound of on this peace of garbage.
Argh, this is why so many people who know of the A chose not to tell the BS.
Because, what the BS doesn't know cant hurt BS.
Also, the BS doesn't want to know anyways.
1 comment posted: Monday, September 16th, 2024
My funny Shakira song story.
Shakira's song "Hip Dont Lie" came out 13 years ago.
When that song came out it was huge and all over the place.
13 years ago, I really didn't like that song and was sick and tired of hearing it everything.
Three months ago, I listened to the song again and this time , I got it.
I finally understood why the song was so big 13 years ago.
Now, I really like the song 13 years later.
LoL.
Shakira's song has 1.2 Billion views on Youtube and now I'm finally a fan of that song.
0 comment posted: Wednesday, March 29th, 2023
Count from 1 to 5 and back down again with SI emojis
I will start with six to show everyone.
7 comments posted: Thursday, February 23rd, 2023
Mod please minor glitch to report
I'm a furthest thing from a computer expert possible so I don't how big or small this problem is. I just figured MH needs to know about this.
Now, I will go into the problem.
I live in pacific standard time zone. I noticed the time I logged in was 9 pm last night .
Last night I logged into SI account using my computer.
I hovered my mouse over the "forums" icon and the list all the available forums came up. The options that came up for me started from "main page through the book club". The option for "fun and games" forum was missing
I had logged in to specifically check the fun and games forum and I freaked out when I didn't see the "fun and games" forum.
I freaked out and thought that I was banned from the "fun and games" forum. I nervously checked to see if I had gotten a PM from the mods banning me from the "fun and games " forum. I didn't get a PM from the mods notifying me that I was banned from the "fun and games" forum.
Then I checked on my phone. I was not logged into SI my account on my phone. The "fun and games " option was not available either even when I wasn't logged into my SI account.
I thought about making a thread in "off topic" asking others if they had a problem getting in the "fun and games" forum but I was tired and didn't think it was that important.
I have a platinum account so I went into my recent post to see if I could access my "fun and games" post through my recent post. My fun and games post showed up on my recent post. When I clicked on my fun and games post through my recent post, I could get into my fun and games post.
Then, I logged out of my SI account on my computer and did other stuff on the computer.
At 910 pm , I logged back into SI and I hovered my mouse on the "forum" icon and I saw the avaiable options were from "main page all the way through to fun and games".
So, the problem seemed to have fixed itself.
3 comments posted: Sunday, March 13th, 2022
Make a word from a the last letter of previous word
hello
115 comments posted: Thursday, March 3rd, 2022
count upward by editing your post
0
7 comments posted: Thursday, February 24th, 2022
Make a word from the last letter of previous word
Very simple rules.
Make one word from the last letter of the word someone else made above .
This is a group game. You are not allowed to play solo
I just played solo for the first seven words to show everyone how's it done.
If there is a mistake for whatever reason, we just flow with the mistake and move on.
I'll start
Dorothy
[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 3:38 PM, November 13th (Wednesday)]
328 comments posted: Wednesday, November 13th, 2019
Post GI.Fs of your favorite childhood nostalgic memories
Rules : Follow all F&G forum rules.
Also use common sense and not post anything that others may find offensive and make sure all your pictures are safe for work.
Otherwise have fun.
Post pictures of anything in your child hood that brings back happy nostalgic memories.
Examples
1) Favorite toys
2) TV shows
3) Places
4) Foods
5) Games
6) ETC. ETC.
45 comments posted: Wednesday, August 29th, 2018
What's your smart battery's % of charge right now ?
Log your phone , laptop or tablet battery's % of charge whenever you want to .
I'm at 93% now on my phone.
[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 8:33 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)]
35 comments posted: Tuesday, July 24th, 2018
Wish SI a happy B-day by posting pictures.
Wish SI a happy birthday by
1) Giving thanks
2) Post pictures of cakes, gifts, party favors, food etc.
I'll start.
Thank you SI for all the lives you've have touched.
11 comments posted: Sunday, June 10th, 2018
Count from 1 through 10 . Again & Again
Rules count from 1 through 10.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
Again
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
Again.....
13 comments posted: Wednesday, May 24th, 2017
Bump this thread for WhatEver reason you like!
Rules .
Bump thread and give a reason.
Example
1) Because it's Monday
2) Because it's cold
3)Because I just want to.
888 comments posted: Monday, January 2nd, 2017
Shoot fireworks to welcome 2017!!!!!!!!!
3 comments posted: Friday, December 30th, 2016
Make words from A through Z.
Make words from A through Z.
When we get to Z, we go right back to A.
Example.
Apple
Bold
Control
ETC.
348 comments posted: Saturday, November 19th, 2016
Let's count to 1000!!!!!!!!
Let's count to 1000!!!!!
Let's see how pages it will take us to count to ONE THOUSAND.
25 comments posted: Saturday, November 12th, 2016
What's your phone's % of charge right now?
My phone is at 90%
How about you?
54 comments posted: Monday, October 24th, 2016
