Love (ft Marriage and Divorce)

I wasn't sure where to post this, as it isn't a book, rather it's a Korean drama on Netflix, but I've been watching Love (ft. Marriage and Divorce), about three women, one in 30s, 40s, and 50s, who each get cheated on by their spouses, and how they handle and react to it. Some of it may be triggering, but the second season was really good! I hope there are at least a few will have seen it and wanna talk about it!!

0 comment posted: Sunday, August 25th, 2024

Grateful for changes in my life, sad for news of a friend

So many things have happened for me in the last few years. I don't know who remembers me here anymore, but I received so much good support and advice from people here when things seemed so terrible and impossibly dark. I have since remarried, got all my professional specialty certifications, bought a place, and made a small human with my now husband. I didn't know happiness and stability would come back in my life. I was told one day I would have many precious things in my future, and it was so hard to believe that then!

What brought me back is a grade school friend told me about her husband's infidelity and it briefly brought me back to that terrible time. I gave her advice where I could, and told her about my experience when she asked. I also suggested she come here, and I really hope she does. This is truly a great place for healing, and if she comes here, I know she will get some comfort in good company.

3 comments posted: Saturday, August 24th, 2024

I miss OhForANewMe

I know it's been a long time now, but coming back here and not seeing him here made me miss my adopted South African uncle. He was always kind and thoughtful in his responses, and seeing his journey out of infidelity had given me so much hope. In many ways, coming back here without him just is not the same.

8 comments posted: Friday, October 7th, 2022

Ugh feelings

I got married this year and tried to send a letter to ex to tell him he doesn't need to send anymore alimony, but it turns out he moved without informing me (at least by mail, if he tried to text or email, I blocked him... The divorce agreement says communication needs to be by mail). This prompted me to Google him and I saw a theknot site announcing his wedding to the ow next year. I got so angry and annoyed. Anyway. I'm mad at myself for still caring at all, and annoyed because I don't know what to do about alimony (other than hold on to it I guess?). UGH!!

3 comments posted: Wednesday, October 5th, 2022