Storm
Hi. I am male 32 yrs.I have a wife 32F in which we were in realtionship for 5 years and married for 5 years. My wife confessed her infidelity on her own where she had EA/PA with her coworker for 3 months where they slept for 4 to 5 times always under influence of alcohol. However her coworker never got emotionally attached to her and just used her.She was out of country when this happened.She did the confession as she could not live with this guilt. We have small child 3 years old.I also confessed to her that i went to a prostitue in july this year. As for me it was emotionless and act of gratification. However i am not able to reconcile the fact that she was having emotional and physical affair and talking to me to everyday about the stuff in her life and infact assuring me that she is always sober and know her boundaries. There were no lies on her part just act of ommision. She used to tell me all the day events and were communicating regularly. We were in a happy marriage and both successful looking forward to life.Now it is all messed up beyond control.I am not able to come to terms that in a happy marriage what could have led her to such actions. This was so out of character for her.Any advices?
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