Tell Other Spouse Again Or Just Let It Go
Hey all and a little late but Merry Christmas. A little back story in January caught my wife having an affair physical/emotional. I confronted her and him as well as obs. She love bombed me for about a month but did no work and was never safe for reconciliation. Well a couple of months ago I got suspicious and checked her phone appeared to be messaging him again but no definitive answers. I moved out and she filed for divorce that I really don’t want. Now I have proof she is talking to him again. Now divorce will be final in 45 days so I will no longer be being cheated on then. My question is what is more likely to get to a place she is safe for r. Telling obs with evidence or telling my wife I have evidence and have a good life after divorce and walk away. I am pretty sure obs fell for their lies after I outed them the first time. I suspect her ap is offering to help her financially as she couldn’t afford the type of life she lives alone. Thanks for your input.
17 comments posted: Wednesday, December 27th, 2023
