Heartbroken
Been married for 7 years together for 8 have 2 children from previous relationship 2 with him and one on the way. Back in May I discovered my husband was on multiple dating sites as he fell asleep with his phone in has hand he works nights all the messages seemed fresh and he told me that he made a mistake and was low in his self confidence and just wanted a boost although I was sceptical at this point after a few days of me being mad I let it go. I fund most of the household because alot of the time he runs short on the bills which is already a big stress factor.
3 months later we went on a family summer holiday which I had to fully fund his part as he was unable to afford it. A few days into our holiday he fell asleep. I saw he was messaging over 10 woman. All them was just starting but one in particular caught my eye, he was telling her, the feelings he had for her were really deep and that he would cut of all the girls he was talking to. He also mentioned that if he didn't have her he didn't have anything.
I spoke to the girl he was talking to and she told me about the all sneaky conversations they were having. Including phone sex and sending each other sex tapes, she described them to me and it was me in the sex tapes he has also confirmed them although my face wasn't in them I feel really violated and betrayed because I trusted so deeply with this. He told her everything we intimate and on one particular day I though was special he told her he was thinking of her. They have only been speaking for 2 weeks. He has never met her, although they were supposed to meet at some point but she was unable to. He told her he felt forced into marriage with me and that he was with me for the kids sake. He spoke so negatively about me told her so many things about our relationship.
He says it's all a mistake he regrets so deeply and loves me. I just feel so hurt I can't stop thinking about it, and I'm pregnant my emotions are really high.
7 comments posted: Thursday, August 29th, 2024
