What's normal
I am on day 4 since finding out, the first 3 days I moved out (my choice) as I couldn't face our home. My questions are this, for me to process this do I have to have more space away from him, right now I find it easier to be in his company so he can answer all my questions (timeline confirmed) having him around calms me, but once I am on my own my brain goes mental, not because I don't know where he is but I just need to be with him, is not taking time to be on my own going to cause issues later? Is it normal to seek his comfort even though he caused the hurt (no sex, just holding me), and lastly should I be feeling anger? I don't, we are both so broken, I can see he is hurting (and rightly so) but I still hate to see it, sorry for long post. The infidelity was flirty texts (no sexting) during working hours and some kissing on work night outs, all confirmed as much as it can be
7 comments posted: Tuesday, February 11th, 2025
