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Under no circumstances would I ever take a polygraph test. I grew up with a member of my extended family known for lying. It did such a number on me that I cannot stand to lie about anything. The problem is I’m so stressed out about it that even when I’m not lying, but someone I thinks I am, I start blushing, my heart rate goes up and I’m a nervous wreck. That’s why I know I could not pass a polygraph test even if I was telling the truth which I would be. I would suggest you use a private investigator. It’s worth a couple of thousand dollars just for the peace of mind of knowing one way or the other. Good luck.

For over 25 years, my wife believed I had cheated on her.
She said she had a gut feeling about it.
4 years ago after being together over 31 years I caught her in the 6th month, of her affair. She told me when her AP was trying to convince her to have sex with him he said, "come on, your husband's probably cheated on you!". After that she said to herself, "He had his fun all those years ago, now it's time for me to have my fun." That sealed the deal for them.
After all we've been through since then, she finally believes me. For over 25 years she had presumed I was guilty.
No matter what I said, she wouldn't believe me. For years, I was bothered she felt that way. i felt like a prisoner who was sent to prison without a trial.
I don't know if I would have taken a lie detector test all those years ago. I would have been worried what if the machine gives a false reading. I'm a nervous person under the best of circumstances. I think the pressure alone would have given a negative result.
I hope you find your answers somehow.
I never suspected my wife would cheat. I had no idea, no gut feeling, nothing. I thought our life was going great.
I happened to find a message she forgot to delete.
They can hide stuff, but most eventually screw up.