Topic is Sleeping.
Never2late ( member #79079) posted at 4:51 PM on Friday, June 2nd, 2023
Honestly, it sounds like you are in love with someone that doesn't exist. She is not the person in your vision of her and you can't will this into existence.
survrus ( member #67698) posted at 1:23 AM on Saturday, June 3rd, 2023
Goingtomakeit,
You wrote, Ok I finally just talked with her, and came away with answers:
1. She said she had affair and she was wrong.2. OM was nothing-he was just a fantasy
3. I am the one
4. She is mad because I rarely cooked dinner
If OM was just a fantasy then what were you a nightmare? This is serious minimization. Was the OM an adonis or 6 foot 5 or something?
What did she think OM was going to provide for her life was he going to cook dinner?
After WW answers your questions take her for a polygraph where the examiner asks her if there are any more minimized or omitted truths or lies
[This message edited by survrus at 1:24 AM, Saturday, June 3rd]
Topic is Sleeping.