Topic is Sleeping.
doublerainbow (original poster member #82239) posted at 12:45 AM on Friday, May 5th, 2023
First court appearance is next week and I've been meticulously documenting every single interaction, every lie about the affair and parental alienation that he's attempting over the past year. My lawyer says my case is as good as it gets, but I can't help but worry. I really wish I could do this without having to see him in person, yet I'm actually a little curious about how WH is going to respond when he finds out how much I know about his trickle-truthing, lies, smear campaign against me, and even just the affair in general.
Desperately need some good vibes!
Me: BS (38) Him: WS (45) D-Day (Jan 2022), going through D. 1 DD age 4. Just want to know there’s light at the end of this mess.
Forks027 ( member #59996) posted at 2:41 AM on Friday, May 5th, 2023
Sending some virtual good vibes your way. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:54 AM on Friday, May 5th, 2023
Sending positive vibes!!!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 6:42 AM on Friday, May 5th, 2023
Sending mojo. Let us know how it goes.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Crazytrain101 ( member #48200) posted at 1:35 PM on Friday, May 5th, 2023
Doublerainbow,
You've got this! Sending you all the strenght and postivity in the world.
8 years ago-found out he was a serial cheater-Reconciled-2015 Back again September 2022 as WH is a cheater again Heading to Divorce
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 7:59 PM on Friday, May 5th, 2023
Try to keep calm. I had to go to court four times during my divorce and two of them involved me doing nothing but sitting next to my lawyer. The other two were trial.
The good news is that your lawyer feels confident about your case.
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
doublerainbow (original poster member #82239) posted at 2:17 AM on Thursday, May 25th, 2023
I didn’t sleep the night before and barely ate all day, but the first appearance went well (I think). He showed up late. I barely said anything and he started digging his own grave by falsely accusing me of a smear campaign and parental alienation. I didn’t even go into the binders of the stuff he’s done yet. Court saw right through him (I hope).
I can’t believe how "easy" he’s almost making this - all the projecting, accusing me of shit he’s done himself (which I have documented and he doesn’t). I just hope he keeps digging his own grave with his usual lying and narcissistic acts and hope even harder the system sees it.
Me: BS (38) Him: WS (45) D-Day (Jan 2022), going through D. 1 DD age 4. Just want to know there’s light at the end of this mess.
Topic is Sleeping.
