Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 3:20 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2025
Others have addressed your wife. The thing that instantly jumped out to me is your "sharp decline". You need a complete physical exam with focus on testosterone. Look at X-ray for lungs. Possible colonoscopy and other really fun exams. Make sure that isn’t some hidden physical issue causing your depression.
If nothing is found see a psychologist or psychiatrist. A change in behaviors and feelings needs to be addressed asap.
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis