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KitchenDepth5551 (original poster member #83934) posted at 3:03 PM on Monday, July 27th, 2026
I recently outed a member, ff4152, for not revealing his affair to his BS and giving another member contradictory advice. It was a thread jack. I apologize for that.
Since then, I have received a private message from ff4152 telling me they sleep well knowing they live rent free in my head with hearts and laughing emojis. I replied that I also sleep well knowing I'm living their advice they don't have the courage to follow.
I received another private message today. I'm leaving it on unread.
ff4152, if you want to continue the conversation, at least have the courage to do it publicly here. You are demonstrating your character well.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 3:37 PM on Monday, July 27th, 2026
KitchenDepth5551, have you read SI's guidelines?
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:49 PM on Monday, July 27th, 2026
This violates guidelines in the following ways:
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d-day - 12/22/2010 Recover'd and R'ed
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