leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:37 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Eric1964 ( new member #84524) posted at 9:44 PM on Sunday, March 30th, 2025
There's excellent wisdom here but I found this site and this thread far, far too late, which basically meant I'd made choices by default (to stay, to forgive.) I'm about to start therapy; my fear is that I won't have the strength to act on what it teaches me.
WW always had a not-entirely negative attitude to affairs.Affair with ex-coworker, DDay1 2009-12-31; affair resumed almost immediately, DDay2 2010-06-11. Sex life poor. Possibly other affair(s) before 2009.