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Tanner (original poster guide #72235) posted at 9:39 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2022
Our Daughter is expecting her 3rd!!!! I’m really excited about this because her first two were from her first M, and it was a very stressful time, in a M she needed out of. We love the grandkids dearly, but couldn’t enjoy the pregnancy journey and birth because of the drama.
Her second H is perfect for her, I couldn’t have picked better for her myself. He stepped in 5 years ago and became a great Daddy to the girls. He has always been content to not have bio kids, and just raise the girls as his own.
We will be able to rejoice and celebrate this as a family, this time.
I swore to not tell anybody, but y’all aren’t just "anybody" y’all are my SI family. 
[This message edited by Tanner at 9:40 PM, Saturday, February 12th]
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 10:23 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2022
OK, I think we need to officially start a grandparents thread!
Congratulations!
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 12:09 AM on Sunday, February 13th, 2022
CONGRATS!!!
I’m so glad this can be time of total celebration!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 1:12 AM on Sunday, February 13th, 2022
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 6:55 AM on Sunday, February 13th, 2022
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
WTAF ( member #79274) posted at 3:49 AM on Monday, February 14th, 2022
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 3:11 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2022
That's great, Tanner! I love these posts full of anticipation and excitement. Glad to hear it's your turn to share. 
humantrampoline ( member #61458) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, February 15th, 2022
Yea!!! What wonderful news. I'm happy for you.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 11:44 AM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022
How exciting! Congratulations on another grand baby.
Faithfinder ( member #79750) posted at 10:03 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022
Congrats!!! Having a baby around is great!
Me: BW- 45Him: WH - 50AP -26, coworkerDDay10/3/2021, now engaged to OW 01/01/22Married 17 years, together 21 years3 kidsserved separation papers 1/22
Divorce final 11/22New relationship with boyfriend 35 for 1 year and a half. OW - 49, found out 1/3
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 2:36 PM on Thursday, February 17th, 2022
Congratulations Coozann 
!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Tanner (original poster guide #72235) posted at 8:05 PM on Sunday, March 27th, 2022
Update!!!!
Gender reveal yesterday. ITS A BOY!!!!
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:26 PM on Sunday, March 27th, 2022
Fun! So nice that you are enjoying this so much!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 10:12 PM on Sunday, March 27th, 2022
Yay!!! Congratulations!!!
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 11:25 PM on Sunday, March 27th, 2022
So AWESOME!!! Thanks for sharing this BLESSED news !!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:19 AM on Monday, March 28th, 2022
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 5:36 AM on Monday, March 28th, 2022
emergent8 ( Guide #58189) posted at 6:17 AM on Monday, March 28th, 2022
Me: BS. Him: WS.
D-Day: Feb 2017 (8 m PA with married COW).
Happily reconciled.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:03 PM on Monday, March 28th, 2022
That makes 5 of 6 coming this year that I know of that are boys. My son and his GF are not finding out, and it's killing me.
Seriously. I would love to start buying clothes for them, finances are going to be tight, and I have started purchasing diapers and wipes everytime I go to the store, but baby clothes, and gender specific things are so much more fun. Gender neutral stuff is tough to come by.
Anyway Congrats Tanner!!!!! Baby boys are wonderful, and toddler boys are the absolute best.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:29 PM on Monday, March 28th, 2022
Congratulations, Tanner.
Hey, tush - for a while, our very boyish GS's favorite color was pink. He didn't start disliking girls until he was 8, IIRC.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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