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JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 3:55 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I'm so so sorry, sending deepest condolences to you and your family.
Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 4:42 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I’m so sorry to read this. Cayce is a hero, there are families getting prayers answered right now because of her organ donations.
We are a family of strangers here, we hurt for you. My W and I talked about it last and prayed Cayce and your family. We were heartbroken to read your update this morning.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, sweet Cayce.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 5:20 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
GoldenR,
I'm sorry about what has happened to your daughter and your family. The pain must be enormous. Please take care of yourself and your family through the grieving process.
Sending strength,
TIF
Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.
Definedbygrace ( new member #80351) posted at 5:39 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
prayers for you and your family, I can not imagine what you have been through and are going through.
Me: BW64 (24 at time of betrayal)Him: FWH66 (26 at time of Adultery) DD: 3/86 FWS confessed to 14 month NSA PA with married Co worker, 6x for lunch time quickies between 10/82-11/83 Severely Retriggered 9/2021 Reconciled but still healing from trigger
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 5:41 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Golden, I don't have words for how sorry I am. I hope you know that all of our hearts are with you and that we're here whenever you need us in this dark time.
You, Cayce and your family all deserved so much better.
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 5:53 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
"Because I deserve better"
Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 7:49 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I am so terribly sorry for you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Husband had six month affair with co-worker. Found out 7/2020. Married 20 years at that point; two teenaged kids. Reconciling.
waitedwaytoolong ( member #51519) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Just so sorry to hear about this. Crushing. Just no words.
I am the cliched husband whose wife had an affair with the electrician
Divorced
jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I'm so sorry. Prayers to you and your family.
Divorced 2007.
EXWH died 2011
Remarried 2018!
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 8:54 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Your beautiful daughter's life might have been far too short but because of your love and devotion, she had more in her 30 years than many people have in life twice or even 3 times as long. I know you'll be devastated for quite awhile but please always know in your heart of hearts that if the end was inevitable, there was nowhere she'd rather be than in her Daddy's arms. And you were there, exactly where she needed you.
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
So sorry for your loss, Golden. She does sound like a firecracker. Sending hugs.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 9:58 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
I am so very sorry GoldenR. 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 10:17 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Such sad news, I am deeply sorry for the passing of your daughter.
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 10:58 PM on Thursday, July 28th, 2022
Oh, Golden. I'm so very,very sorry.
I'm praying for you. For strength, and comfort.
Huge hugs to you.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 1:24 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
How tragic! So sorry for your loss. Hopefully you have a good support system around you to help navigate the grief you're experiencing.
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 1:29 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
Oh Golden, I am just so doggone sorry to hear this. what a heartbreaking loss. Sending you the biggest virtual hug possible. We will be here for you whenever you need it.
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 4:14 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
I just now saw this. I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter Cayce. She, you, and your family are in my heartfelt prayers.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 6:55 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
I am so sorry. You were fortunate to have 30 years with such an amazing person, but I know it wasn't nearly enough. My heart aches for you and your family. Wishing you all strength during this time. ((((GoldenR))))
me: BS/WS h: WS/BS
Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.
ramius ( member #44750) posted at 7:26 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022
So sorry. Prayers for you and your family.
How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?
Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.
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